Who would want to do that? But strangely enough we often do things that actually sabotage our efforts to become confident. we would like to be confident but are you also secretly wishing to kill your own confidence?
Do you always try very hard to show your ‘Confidence’ but do not actually have any confidence?
You are not alone. There are a lot of people struggling with this problem everyday. Do you know what happens when you resist a thought? It persists. Now tell me when made up your mind about your confidence? What is your primary reason? Do you hate being Confident? Do you hate the idea of low confidence? Do you get bad time due to your low confidence~Do you get bad time due to your low confidence}?
You may have some unconscious blocks that stops you from becoming a confident person. Want to find out what these blocks are? You might believe you will never be a confident person, but this belief is not based on fact – it is simply based on your way of looking at things.
Lets check out the some of the most common blocks to self confidence.
Don’t Deserve to be confident
Hard to believe but many people have this problem. Consciously you say that you want to be confident yet deep down you think you don’t deserve it because you are not good enough as a person. Its the same as thinking you do not deserve to be happy. As long as this block remains, it will be very hard to reach your confidence goal.
You have fear of being very confident
Sometimes people are more afraid of changes they have to face due to success than due to failures. It is the same story with self confidence. if you choose to become confident, things are going to change in your life. A lot of people find change to be a very scary thing.
Do you believe confidence means arrogance
Perhaps you have met people who seemed overly confident – so confident in fact that they came across as arrogant and rather obnoxious. You might be worried that your confidence levels will be unstoppable and transform you into someone you don’t like.
You think certain people are born with a confidence gene and are ‘lucky’
You fear what others will think of the new, confident you.
Most of us care deeply what others think of us. Because a lack of confidence is so prevalent in our society, we are often surrounded by other people who are just as unconfident as we are. This often gives us a sense of belonging. The ones close to us always reinforce that. Sometimes we have to change a few things in our life in order to become more confident and the ones who love us may not like this idea. They might feel threatened too and subsequently you might be worried that you will lose friends.
You think you are too shy to be confident
many people wrongly belive that being shy means you should not have confidence. In fact if you are shy becoming free from shyness should be a good reason why you want to become confident
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