Who would want to do that? But strangely enough we often do things that actually sabotage our efforts to become confident. we would like to be confident but are you also secretly wishing to kill your own confidence?
Do you try to portray confidence when you actually feel weak and nimble on the inside?
You are not alone. many people struggle with this problem for years. Know what happens when you resist something? even a thought? It comes back stronger. Now tell me when made up your mind about your confidence? What is your main reason? Do you hate being Confident? Do you hate the idea of low confidence? Did you go through a bad experience due to your lack of confidence~Do you get bad time due to your low confidence}?
It is likely that you have certain blocks stopping you from becoming the confident person you deserve to be. Want to find out what these blocks are? You might believe you will never be a confident person, but this belief is not based on fact – it is simply based on your way of looking at things.
What are the common blocks that stop you from being confident.
Do you feel You do not deserve to have a successful life
Hard to believe but many people have this problem. Consciously you say that you want to be confident yet deep down you think you don’t deserve it because you are not good enough as a person. Its the same as thinking you do not deserve to be happy. Until you resolve this block, it will be difficult to reach your goals.
You are afraid to be confident
Sometimes people are more afraid of changes they have to face due to success than due to failures. It’s the same with confidence. If you become confident and begin to fulfill your goals and ambitions, it would bring a lot of change to your world. A lot of people find change to be a very scary thing.
Do you believe confidence means arrogance
Perhaps you have met people who seemed overly confident – so confident in fact that they came across as arrogant and rather obnoxious. You may worry that you will become so confident that you will forget who you really are.
You think certain people are born with a confidence gene and are ‘lucky’
You are afraid of others opinion about your new confident self.
A lot of us place great value on what others think of us. Because a lack of confidence is so prevalent in our society, we are often surrounded by other people who are just as unconfident as we are. This often gives us a sense of belonging. Our friends and family probably reinforce that. Becoming more confident means changing and sometimes this isn’t favored by those around us – they might be hostile to or jealous of our pursuit of confidence and fulfillment. They might feel threatened too and subsequently you might be worried that you will lose friends.
You may belive that you are very shy and you cannot be confident
many people wrongly belive that being shy means you should not have confidence. In fact if you are shy getting rid of shyness should be a good reason why you want to become confident
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